To: all idiots who are looking for somebody to chat and decide to message me on ICQ
From: me
Listen up.
If I'm in Away, N/A, or DND mode, it means I'm away or busy doing other things. It means I will not reply to your messages. So don't message me.
The fact that I'm female does not, I repeat, does NOT mean I am ready to fall into the arms of the first loser who messages me in ICQ. Messages like "Hi, my lover to be, how are you?" are not acceptable.
If you want me to authorize you to add me to your contact list, you have to give me a valid reason. "I want somebody to talk with", "I am looking for a girlfriend", "please let me add you", "hello sweet girl" are NOT valid reasons. Neither is "you're cute" (unless you're one of my friends. ;). Generally, I will NOT let you add me to your contact list unless I know you from somewhere.

And people wonder why I'm always in invisible mode.